Did all of your relatives visit you immediately after the birth, or did you ask them to visit later?

Only the closest relatives like your parents should be fine, your mum is probably more nervous than you about you being pregnant, so I can understand she can't wait to see her grandchild. I would make an exception for mum, but not letting her take care of me, just a visit to see her grandchild but no long stay. Other family members and friends will have to wait, its as simple as that.